Entries Tagged as 'positive attitude'

Lighten Up! A book recommendation

St. Patrick’s Day reminded me of a subject that makes me crazy!! Seriously, I am just sick to death of people taking themselves too seriously (pun intended.)   Learning to laugh (again) is exactly that – learning.  Difficult people particularly walk around with a sour look and sometimes a stare that is pretty scary.  Do yourself a favor — order The Levity Effect by Adrian Gostick on Amazon to eliminate mental toxic behavior.

Here’s  why:
If you think work is no laughing matter, the joke’s on you. The Levity Effect uses serious science to reveal the remarkable power of fun and humor in building a productive, engaged, and loyal workforce…and a more successful you. If you doubt levity is good for business, consider this: lighthearted leaders earn more on average than their more dour peers; entertaining workplaces breed more loyal employees and happier customers; and employees who are considered humorous are vastly more likely to get promoted—especially to senior positions.

The benefits of the levity effect are built on extensive research and case studies from some of the world’s most successful organizations. Adrian Gostick is a best selling author and co-author Scott Christopher, humorist, provide powerful examples of leaders from Boeing, Nike, KPMG, Yamaha, Enterprise, Zappos, and dozens of others, all of which prove that lightening up leads to real business results. I think this is cool stuff.

The Levity Effect is for anyone who wants to build an engaging, productive work culture and a more successful career. With interviews, extensive research, and lighthearted insight, The Levity Effect turns traditional business thinking on its head to prove again and again that a fun and engaging workplace leads to better business, more focused employees, and satisfied customers.

I guess there is something to be said for laughing your way to the bank!  Let me know what you think.  Marsha

Extreme Makeover of Your Ability

Did you watch Extreme Makeover last night? This is a program I rarely watch but I was doing mindless paperwork in my office and thought - what the heck. Well, I’m glad I did.

Patrick Henry HughesPatrick Henry Hughes was born without sight and some real physical issues. He views his “disability” as an “ability” to do certain things better than most people. Patrick Henry has the ability to see people from the inside out, rather than judge them from the outside in.

When he said this, it was like someone slapped me in the face. I had NEVER thought of judgment in this way. Unless you are sight impaired, you judge. We all do. So here is the lesson. Pretend your eyes are closed when you meet someone. Listen to their soul speak. Become a great listener and an even better questioner. Suspend your judgments. Dig deep.

Patrick Henry Hughes

Personally I’m tired of people being so self absorbed that it is all about themselves. They mentioned on Extreme Makeover a web site that is a great one. I will also be selfish here (oh that’s right, it’s not about me) and ask you to visit my heartstrings at www.AZMagic.org.

Marsha

Three Keys to Dealing with Bad Attitudes

I am tired of people telling me - “I really have tried work with my boss, or my colleague. They just don’t get it.” Actually, what I’ve learned is most people don’t get it. They are never going to have a chance at success unless self-awareness it the center focus of their personal development. Here is an old post but a good one: http://www.how2dealwithdifficultpeople.com/

1. Toxic and difficult people don’t like being around positive people, because they positive people have tools to manage their ugly behavior. Negative people don’t. Remember that a positive attitude won’t solve everything, but it will tick off enough people to make it worth the effort.

2. What gives you a bad attitude? Create an awareness of what the spikes are. I have previously suggested to keep a success journal to record positive events. Perhaps you should make notes of when you are pushed over the edge and see if there is a common trend. The real key? Pay attention! Is it politics? Or a particular candidate? Or the news? Only you can figure out the hot buttons and deal with the bad attitude head on.

3. Stop buying into negative people’s grief and complaining. That is their goal!! Start changing your focus today, and you will be amazed how your attitude will be adjusted. You then become the role model for everyone in your life. And keep it up. Don’t waiver because it is just what the people with bad attitudes want! Here is a tip: read Larry Winget’s best selling book Shut Up, Stop Whining and Get a Life.

What do you think? Would love to hear your comments on this.

MarshaDon’t let the difficult people make you crazy