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Give thanks by taking personal responsibility!

Wishing you the joy of family, friends, and giving thanks… on this Thanksgiving Holiday. Connect your head and heart with your mouth and say Thank You more often. Give back more than you’ve received. Be caring, kind and gracious — and not just on Thanksgiving, but every day.

Take personal responsibility for everything you are thankful for. Know that you, and only you, control your destiny. Make choices that give you the outcomes you want and deserve both professionally and personally! Practice TLC. Take it.   Leave it. Change it.
Happy Thanksgiving, Marsha

Leaders! Don’t let your marketing guard down

When times get tough, the tough spend money. Leaders (defined as anyone that wants to succeed) do! This is a time in business that you should position yourself into an even stronger position.  Example:  We just launched a brand new website at www.MarshaPetrieSue.com with lots of new information for people that need a different focus and tools to take personal responsibility for themselves.  (Please comment below on how you like the website and I will send you a present!!)

Taking this kind of action seems like a risk, but if you are moving forward with your plan, you will succeed. Action eliminates the choice of becoming a toxic person or falling into difficult behavior especially when well thought out.  Ask your mentor, or hire a business coach – just do something.  Invest in yourself and your future.  You deserve it!

Self leadership and awareness are more important now than ever. Spoiled brats need not apply.  So check out the new site. There is a bunch of free information that will help you and your group!  Thanks for visiting.

Marsha Petrie Sue

www.MarshaPetrieSue.com

Fire Proof Yourself!

The U.S. job losses accelerated the last two months, pushing the unemployment rate to 14-year highs in October, a government report showed, suggesting the economic downturn has taken a turn for the worse toward a deep recession. You need to Fire Proof yourself! Don’t become a Toxic Person or use difficult behavior in the workplace. Just look at the facts.
You are probably asking yourself, “Am I next?” Here are the ten ways on  how to “Fire Proof” yourself.
1.    Never Gossip. Ever. You never know who’s listening and how they will change your message to make themselves look good.  If you think the grapevine is your main source of information and gossiping keeps you in the know, learn to ask questions and be a better communicator.

2.    Don’t waste the company’s money by taking personal calls, surfing the Internet, playing games or anything else.  Keep doing this and you will have plenty of time because you will not be employed. It is stealing and they will notice.

3.    Don’t even think of dating at work. In good times, companies overlook this behavior but in bad times, it can be looked at as a liability.  You don’t need a demerit when top brass is reviewing who stays and who goes.

4.    Build good relationships with everyone, even people you don’t particularly like.  They don’t have to be your “friend” but should always be considered as part of your support team.

5.    Take ownership of your job and never point the finger at others. If you make a mistake, own up to it. Don’t try to sweep your mistakes under the carpet because the truth will usually come back to bite you on the bottom line. Build trust when you can. This is a “attaboy” or “attagirl” on your side!

6.    Create the best work product you can without loosing sight of other projects.  Be a results oriented, deadline oriented machine. Constantly ask yourself, “Is this the best use of my time right now” to keep your self-focused on the important.

7.    Don’t complain and be careful with the problems and issues you uncover.  Are they really critical to the growth of the business.  Yes they do want solutions for problems, but even bringing up too many issues can be a problem.

8.    Just be happy to have a job.  If you ever say to yourself, “I hate my job,” learn how to position yourself to find another one.  Don’t even tell your best friend you hate your job because this language will change your day-to-day performance and habits. (Want more information on this topic?  Check the articles at www.MarshaPetrieSue.com)

9.    Take a pay cut or freeze gracefully. Even better, offer to take a salary cut, if you know that the company is in trouble. Remember they are trying to keep the company afloat (or for his new car purchase) so just smile and say “I know that it’s all for the good of the company. Let me know how I can help.”

10.    Stay positive and forward thinking.  You don’t have to become a Paul or Pollyanna, but you do have to stay away from the mental terrorism that can result from tough times.  Stay pleasant, gracious and optimistic.

WARNING: Don’t be fooled by anyone asking you “How Are Things?” or “What’s wrong.” Always respond with “Fantastic” and never let your guard down. Learn that you must take personal responsibility and Fire Proof yourself against the burning problems faced in today’s economy.

What are you doing for yourself to make sure you don’t get laid off, outsources, or right sized?  Marsha

More Moral Amnesia and Lack of Personal Accountability for Toxic People!

And you thought you had heard the last of this mess from New York!  The Wall Street Journal reported today that Federal prosecutors won’t bring criminal charges against former New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer in connection with payments he made to a high-end prostitution ring.  In a statement, U.S. Attorney Michael J. Garcia in Manhattan said Spitzer has acknowledged to prosecutors that he was a client of and made payments to Emperors Club VIP.

Stay on the cutting edge

So does admitting that you messed up mean you don’t have any responsibility?  I don’t think so!  Everyone is accountable for their actions, except of course if you are a politician it seems.

A probe by Garcia’s office found Spitzer arranged on multiple occasions for women to travel from one state to another to engage in prostitution, but uncovered no evidence of misuse of public or campaign funds. Really?  So I guess this clears the path for anybody to use public funds for whatever their bad habits are!

Personally, I’m tired of people not taking personal responsibility and using self leadership to run their lives.  What happened to being a role model for others, especially children?  What happened to focusing on others while we take care of our selves.  People are Spoiled Brats!

Marsha

www.MarshaPetrieSue.com

Marsha@MarshaPetrieSue.com

Guilt, Flaws and the Future

It’s all about personal responsibility.  I received this question from a reader and thought you would enjoy it along with my response.

Dear Marsha,

God is awesome in his way of having us hear what we need to hear.  I heard your broadcast this morning (Nov 2nd) only because I needed to run to Walmart before my husband left for work. I took his car and there you were talking about toxic people.  My question is:  I have realized (or should I say God has revealed to me) over the last year that I have been a toxic person.  I’m also a good person, and I think you can be both.  Now that I see myself and my flaws more clearly, how do I now press through the guilt of words and bad decisions I’ve made over the years because of my toxicity?

Dump the baggage!

My response:

Thanks for your inquiry.  There are many perspectives you can take.  Remember you cannot change yesterday.  So my preference is to call the “flaws” experience and move on.  Choose to be a better person and don’t dwell on the past.  Please visit my site at www.MarshaPetrieSue.com and sign up for the newsletter.  You will receive a download for signing up that will help you answer that question!  Hope that helps!  Marsha
Visit the website for more information www.MarshaPetrieSue.com or call Marcia Snow at 1.888.797.6700

Marsha’s book, the CEO of YOU addresses this issue as well!