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Steamrollers

From one of my readers in asking them how a coaching session went with a “Steamroller” employee:

Well, it went! I can tell you I got her attention. I showed her the notes that I took from the session recording - pretty much verbatim - as you explained the characteristics of a “steamroller.” I was careful to tell her that I wasn’t “labeling” her, but that when I attended the session and you described the steamroller, I thought of her. She said she didn’t want to be seen as a steamroller, nor was she aware of being perceived as described in your session.

I’m sending her the session recording today along with the handouts from your session. Awareness is the first step, right? I told her that I was going to call it to her attention whenever I was aware of her steamrolling someone or when I felt she was steamrolling someone in an email. She was open to this. Unfortunately, she is in our southeast office, but I do have frequent phone interaction with her.

Later in the day after she’d had some time to reflect on our meeting, there was some rationalizing and denial. When she started down that road, I told her rather than looking back to concentrate going forward. She said she needed to rationalize past experiences in order to fully understand. I said, OK, but we need to give it some space, that we’d talked it to death for today. So, I put an end to that!

Only time will tell. Unfortunately, the leadership in the other office wouldn’t belly up to the bar with me. They said, “Oh, we don’t see it.” I told the Office Manager that since the partners don’t see it, I’m certain that she can adjust her behavior for subordinates/peers as she does for the leaders!

It was a long day - I flew out of town, had the review and the discussion about being nice to people and what that looked like, flew home. Days like that are emotionally draining, especially when there’s no support from the leadership in the office. But I’m tough! I know in my heart of hearts that I was honest with her, but yet was compassionate. I told her we’re all human, none of us are perfect, and I’m sure she’d like to change some things about me. I even suggested that once she listens to the recording that she let me know if she sees me as one of the “toxic people” you describe. Tried to even the playing field a bit, not sure if that was good or not, but it felt right.

Further, I called her this morning to check on her, so to speak. We have exchanged calls, but I will touch base with her before end of day.

Probably more than you wanted to know, but I think the tools you are providing are really good. Many thanks.

From Marsha: No I love the detail. Your approach was wonderful.

For the future, here are some suggestions:
Ask the leadership before you make an approach on anyone if it would be helpful for them to have employees more productive. Of course they will say yes – then you back in to your approach on whatever the issue is. Often times I have found, leaders don’t want to upset the applecart!

Then on your approach with the person, identify what you learned from the session, book, etc. then apply it to them. Sometimes that makes the information easier for them to accept.

Anyway – you did a great job! Congratulations!!!! Keep me posted. Marsha

Overturn Turnover: keeping the people that keep your business cooking

Nationally, the average annual employee turnover rate for all companies is estimated to be 12 percent with the current unemployment rate at 4.6 percent. You must create a work environment that includes the ingredients to keep the people you have because the chance of finding better employees is slim. It means you must maintain a setting that is productive, interesting, motivating, creative, and successful EVERYDAY! Poor performers and difficult people must be “fixed.”

Your company deserves the best of the best! Many surveys say the number one issue facing business is finding and keeping good employees. Not only does this help the bottom line, it builds morale and motivation. For example, it costs a law firm approximately $200,000.00 if they lose a law associate within the first two years of employment. This figure does not take into account what the loss of a colleague does to morale and the drive of people remaining.

The process of keeping employees is easy if you apply the following strategies to overturn turnover.

• Selection: Improve staff and sales force retention by helping individuals make better choices before you hire. This begins with the selection process. In this environment of low employment, it is often tempting to hire the first applicant that seems to fill the bill. You can no longer just hold a mirror under their nose to insure they are alive and then hire them! Stop falling into the “hurry up and hire” syndrome. Poor hires feed turnover.

Include questions in the interview process to help you understand their strategic thinking, and problem solving process.
1. What do you see yourself doing five years from now?
2. How do you make yourself indispensable to a company?
3. What’s your greatest strength? Weakness?
4. Tell me about a time when your workload was heavy. How did you complete all your work?
5. Tell me about a time when you had to accomplish a task with someone who was particularly difficult person.
6. How do you accept direction and, at the same time, maintain a critical stance regarding your ideas, ethics, and values?
7. What are some examples of activities and surroundings that motivate you?
8. Tell me about a time when you had to resolve a problem with no rules or guidelines in place.

• Career development: For employees to manage their own career is often a daunting process, especially for Gen X and Gen Y. Develop a system that helps them move toward what they want and to what they aspire. Email Marsha at Marsha@MarshaPetrieSue.com to receive your complimentary copy of Generational Differences. Gen X and Gen Y expect you to understand what they want as far as growth and promotion. Exceptional open communications is the key. On-going casual conversation will help in the process. Knowledge Management studies indicate that important information in an office is transferred in casual environments, for example; over the water cooler, rather than in structured meetings.

In addition, an important part of career development is the role of the performance appraisal. They have to be on going and honest. Too many times people provide employees with “performance appeases” because they are afraid to tell the employee that the expected work outcomes are not being achieved. Improved communications, heightened listening and learning to give appropriate feedback will immediately resolve this dilemma. Another issues is that the appraiser has no clue what kind of performance has been the standard for the appraisee so they give a “gold star performance review to a sub standard employee.

• Create an environment that eliminates gossip, and office politics. The reason there is gossip and office politics is the lack of information. People use these “tools” to fill in the informational black hole that is developed from poor communication and little information. Keeping an open door means you will answer any questions, anytime for anyone. If you don’t have time for an “open door policy” tell your group that they can schedule time (in person or by phone) anytime. Only change these appointments in extreme emergencies, for an example if your hair is on fire.

• Eliminate “shocks” – unexpected events that cause employees to begin thinking negatively about their job. The shock might be an industry change, resource supply interruption, or an international business event. These incidents can initiate the turnover processes because most people “what if” themselves into “I am going to lose my job” disorder. Town hall meetings, news briefs, or whatever mode works for you must be done. And don’t slack it off – people want information and to know how a situation will affect them.

• Help even the most lack-luster employee become a star. Use either in house or external coaching services. Bring in an accomplished speaker to ignite your group. Using assessment tools, the advisor acts as a liaison between the company and the employee. They become a “different messenger” indicating the concerns of the company and can:
1) Help the company to rectify a “performance issue”
2) Help the employee develop self-awareness that will improve them both personally and professionally.
3) Create solutions for the issues at hand.
The results of this connection with the employee can quickly improve performance and help the employee make different choices.

• Apply the “turnover calculator” to determine the effects on your bottom line. The center for community and economic development at the University of Wisconsin has this handy tool on line.
http://www.uwex.edu/CES/cced/economies/turn.cfm#calc

Fact: Businesses of all sizes are facing tremendous challenges on a global scale and know that maximizing their employee’s human potential is the answer to reduce turnover and improve retention.

Apply these simple ingredients to create emotional connections by cultivating an environment that generates resonance and lets people flourish. Apply these time-tested keys to allow you and your company to thrive amidst chaos, turbulent change, and turnover. Create a climate that fosters creative innovations, all-out performance, and lasting client relationships. Overturn turnover today.

Email Marsha for your copy of the Ten Commandments of Cooperation. - Please visit www.MarshaPetriesSue.com or email at Marsha@MarshaPetrieSue.com.

As a professional speaker and author, Marsha Petrie Sue is the Mohammed Ali of communicators। She can dance and look pretty, and she uses the entire ring, but she knows how and when to land a knockout punch. Get the smelling salts! Her presentations are charm school with live ammunition. She is the author of The CEO of YOU and the soon to be released Toxic People: dealing with difficult people in the workplace without using weapons or duct tape.

Kindness

I want to thank the kindness of all the people who attended the Banquet last evening. It seemed that all the difficult people stayed home and were nowhere to be found. The donations, auctions, and general activity to take the time on a Saturday night are much appreciated. Kindness filled the air and the feeling of family and goodwill.

What has happened to our society that kindness takes a backseat to self-centeredness, ego, and rudeness? Why do people choose not to be nice? Personally, I plan to heighten my awareness meter to pay more attention to general kindness and having a good, caring outlook. Being wrapped up in your own life, whether problematic or not, can make anyone over consumed with themselves.

In publishing my next book, Toxic People: Decontaminate difficult people at work without using weapons or duct tape, I must force my life to be more about others and less about me. Here is the key – I will not allow myself to be walked on! Deciding to engage people that have the same view will be my goal. Eliminating the Toxic People from my life will continue to be my mantra. No longer will these people suck the life out of me, and I will surround myself with the like of people that were at the banquet.